Kitty!
Ward and June Cleaver? If you were referring to me...you can HAVE my life!
Now I don't think you were...the reason I found that avatar is because I was lied to by those 50's sitcoms....NO ONE has a Cleaver life! The Beav had to have had something stashed...or he pawned those pearls!
The grass is NOT greener on the other side of the fence! You are seeing the face they present to the world the same way we put our best face forward. The breakdown for me was when it became front page news and I could no longer "pretend" that we were like the Cleavers.
Another thing someone told me once, and it stuck with me, is that people don't think or talk about us much as we think. We are not to top topic of conversation around everyones dinner table even tho it may feel like it sometimes. Food for thought..
Hugs,
JT