Hi WDHG and welcome to SR. I'm sorry for what you're going thru, it's a lot to take in all at once I'm sure. Take some time to click around and do some reading, find some good resources.
You'll find all sorts of people here, some with a lot of recovery, some with little. Some of us are more supportive than others. All of us are on a similar journey but we travel it in different ways. We try to help one another by sharing our own experience, strength and hope.
I hope you are able to find help and support here.
Cats