I guess you need to decide if you're content to just go with the status quo. Sometimes, when we don't know what to do, the best thing is to do nothing. At some point, it may hit you that you're tired of just drifting along and want to make some changes and move on. In order to move on, you have to let go of where you are. When that becomes important to you, then you'll take the steps to make the necessary changes.
Someone here on SR, sorry, can't remember who, has this as their signature...
How does one become a butterfly?" she asked. "You must want to fly so much that you are willing to give up being a caterpillar.
When you are ready to fly, you'll know.
