GingerM- You're right! I never thought about it that way but I want a different outcome with my sister then I got with my father. None of them ever meet my needs. My mom never ever wants to talk about anything but what my sister is doing or not doing. My sister just calls when she needs something. Thank you for that! (:
Kialua- I thought about Hawaii too! I will try forgiving! I know I take everything to heart.