Old 12-28-2011, 02:06 PM
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laurie6781
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But sometimes, he asks me for advise. What i think it would be better. So thats why I started asking that question, to actually have the right answer. He is a free man, he makes the choice.
Having been at one time in my life where your ABF is now, I can tell you he is asking your advice, so when you give it, and he half azz tries it and it doesn't work, then it is YOUR FAULT.

I would suggest that when he asks for advice to say to him "you do the research and you figure out what will work best for you."


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It is another way of manipulation to keep you involved in his 'drama'.
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