Good Morning Rose!
I am sorry to hear that you are feeling low and blue. It sounds like you and your kids all have very busy schedules, and work and SAT are good things for them to be concentrating on. My sons and I try to have dinner together at least once a week, usually on Sunday nights. It's become a fun tradition for us, and one that everyone looks forward to in their hectic weeks.
As for your husband, he's just doing what he does, unfortunately. Its difficult for some of us parents to let our growing children go, and to not be the center of their worlds anymore.
Take some time for you. The Al Anon meetings are a great place to start. I wish I lived closer, because I'd go to a movie with you!
Remember we love you!
O 59