Nicam,
Thank you for sharing your therapists insights, they really hit home for me.
I spent most of my first 35 years being a sarcastic, belittling jerk, always as a cover for my insecurities.
Finally therapy and prozac helped me find that place of safety for the first time in my life.
Now at 49 I have a great life, I still have bad spells, the Penn State sex abuse scandal really set me back, but with the help of friends here at Sober Recovery I am back on track to that place of safety.
I hope you find your place of safety, I will pray that you do.
Merry Christmas and God bless you.
Bill