Hello sprman24, and pleased to "meet" you
You can write posts as long as you want. There is no limit and we will read all of it. That is what we are here for.
Originally Posted by
sprman24 
.... I found out there is one tomorrow. I wish to go. Do I just walk in there, like I would go to church? ( its actually held at a church). Take a seat and listen....
Correct. And all questions are good questions. You just walk in, sit down and listen. You do not have to say _anything_. Not even your name. If you _want_ to you can say your name when they ask, but that is only if you want to. And nothing more.
Click on the below link to see some information about what meetings are like:
First Steps to Al-Anon Recovery » Introduction to meetings
I'm glad you decided to post again, and I am sorry you are going thru this hardship.
Mike