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Old 12-20-2011, 12:55 PM
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seekerofsanity
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Thank you. I have wondered if I qualify as co-dependent, but I did not feel I fit the bill, because I do feel quite selfish sometimes. I do stand up for my needs on a daily basis. He often "needs" me to find something for him, because he would lose his own head if it wasn't attached, and is horrible at looking for things. Often I tell him, I am in the middle of something at the moment, I think you should look for it yourself. Or, I am not responsible for keeping track of your things. It is good information though, and there ARE some qualities of co-dependancy that I can identify with and need to work on. I do admit I have control issues, because things have been so out of control, I feel like if I don't nip things in the bud right away it will be worse in the long run.
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