You got some great advice on telling or not....dating.....Good stuff. The way I look at it. You have to do what's best for your sobriety...If it bothers you...Fix it....Without your sobriety...You have zero...No friends...No school...No job...No dating. Zero. Not picking up is priority number one...And the rest just falls into place. Hope you are working the steps. Hope you have a great Holiday.