No, a week before christmas, his moderating drinking isnt the most important......whats most important is making the best, and right decision for my daughter. She is the most important person here, and i just want to make sure that im doing the right thing by her. At the moment i am confused, perhaps because of what my heads been filled with, of what the right thing to do is, by him and his family. Because theres no abusive aggressive behaviour, because he isnt drinking and becoming unruly......he thinks the problem has gone. We argue because im not happy about any alcohol consumption because im scared that it may end up being a real problem again. I feel i know that the right thing to do is leave, because drinking or no drinking, its not a happy house when both of us are in it. But doubt myself for whatever reason, maybe a confidence thing. Hoping that some people have been in this situation and understand where im coming from