[QUOTE=lesliej;3208742
...all this talk of christmas...christmas...christmas. it's like a major trigger for those of us with challenged boundaries. it's a big inflated excuse to question our decisions, weigh and use it as a measure of how "bad" the addiction is. why, when we are dealing with life challenging and life changing issues, do we let another day on the calendar torture us so??!! [/QUOTE]
Sometimes I think Christmas should be called Codependence Day. We use the day/time of year to rationalize anything and everything, espcially our own fantasies and egos. Then the hangover begins.