Bobby J-
I am almost a year out from my divorce and over 19mths from when all the madness really began.
In many ways this year has been harder than 2010. I lovingly say that I have been through the stages of grief (minus acceptance once), and this year I have done the stages without the "bandaid of denial" that I had in my life prior.
I have not needed meds up until this point, but I have a contract with my counselor that if she thinks I need them at any point I will go onto them....no questions asked. Just knowing that I have that in place helps me....that is one less thing that I have to worry about.
The depression part is the hardest for me.
Try to be kind and gentle with yourself.