Alternatives
Is there a version of Secular Connections for loved ones of alcoholics? I know there is a Friends and Family forum; I'm not talking about that.
I don't understand recovery from codependency - some people say it doesn't exist; others say it is just like alcoholism: progressive and fatal if left untreated.
What is the point of even being in a relationship if you're going to "detach with love"?
I'm affected by the alcoholic (kind of), but I don't feel like I have anything to recover from. I can feel my brain being "washed" by the "detach, work on you, concentrate on your own recovery" material, and I don't like it.