Hi. I just want you to know, from an alcoholic's viewpoint, it's not that he doesn't love you. It's not a competition. Once alcohol is in him, he's lost control of him.
Alcoholism is a mind-body disease. It takes so much away from us & then we are different. We don't need to drink daily, lose our job, etc. for us to have this deadly disease.
Unfortunately no one can help us change. He must decide.
Please get to al anon, take care of you. You are worth it!
Go for you.