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Old 12-06-2011, 02:05 PM
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lesliej
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eyes...holding a "letting go ritual" for the money isn't such a bad idea...it's hard enough as a codie to let of the addict, let alone a big lump sum at the same time. If it was me I would need some serious processing with a sponsor and therapist.
maybe you could start a saving account for yourself...start putting away a little money...slowly "pay yourself back" for the money that you gave away to someone who manipulated you. maybe watching the account grow could help you detach from the debt. I don't know, somehow it feels like it could help...maybe it would just keep you attached.
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