Originally Posted by
RobbyRobot 
I didn't lie to myself about what I really wanted to both give and receive in those past relationships. I was upfront and honest, and i didn't have secrets.
I'm the same way. All my friends, all my family members and any females I may pursue a relationship with know my entire situation. I put everything out there on the table 'cause I don't want to waste their time or mine.
And I know that this isn't a "rule" but just a suggestion. I've talked with countless people in AA and most say that it is a good idea but that the majority of people don't usually make it a full year.