Well.
Got a call a half-hour ago from the therapist here at work. XABF's daughter had just called him, and he thought he'd call me and see whether I knew what was going on, and whether or not I needed his support.
Turns out the doctors have advised his family that the odds of XABF surviving this are very slim, and they're exploring their options and trying to make some decisions.
Addiction claims another one.
Damn.
At least he'll be at peace.