I am so thankful for recovery and my friends/family and PETS including a little feral kitty I caught and domesticated. She is very grateful for me I can tell. I am divorced 4 yrs. from my XAH but I pray he finds recovery. I actually learned from the relationship such things as codependency and boundaries so I can be grateful for the lessons those years taught me. Great- full- ness.......yep I got it.