(((Steve))) - remember when I asked you if really wanted to be like me? 20+ years with one XABF, then on to 2 more? You said you didn't, but you're finding out, time keeps moving. Now you're talking about the second Thanksgiving without her.
I promise you, there are many of us who have years and years with people who were wrong for us. I do pray that, some day, you'll find you are a whole person without her or anyone else, and that it doesn't take you 'til your 50 years old, like me.
Hugs and prayers,
Amy