We were in college, and I really didn't know anyone who didn't drink. But my xh would go off with his friends to smoke pot or spend the day getting drunk and when I had had enough drinking, often he would stay.
I thought he was choosing his friends over me sometimes. That's why I felt almost victorious when I caught his attention - like I had won something. I won something all right. A husband and father to my three children who still chose friends and partying over us.
This has been an eye-opening thread.
