Well, saw a lawyer today about divorce and he gave me a print out of the court case for the marijuana growing incident in July and exAH got the case dismissed! I was angry he didn't get consequences. I called him and asked him what he did to get charged with drug paraphernalia and illegal use or possession and he denied it, said I don't have anything to worry about, got angry because it was supposed to be sealed, and verbally threatened me that he hopes I am not going in the direction of using this information in our custody/divorce. Last thing I said was God Help You. I tried very hard not to let him bully me and I can't believe how I used to "believe" him and get sucked into his thinking. Ughhhhhhh. I know God is in charge of judgment, but oh how I would like to send his family a copy of the case and the charges.......but of course I won't.