Originally Posted by
Cyranoak 
I'm happy to hear this. Just one thing though, please consider practicing in your head what you are going to do and say if she relapses. While, for the most part, I've blundered through all of this for the last ten years, one of the few things I did right after wife got sober was to do that (because I ended up needing it six months later and was properly prepared for once).
Good luck my friend!
Cyranoak
I have been thinking about this for a long time. If she returns to heavy drinking it's over. No questions asked. I have even kept the lawyer on retainer. Just in case. If it's a one time slip up it's going to be a lot harder. I suppose a slip up could be expected but it will make it awfully hard to rebuild the trust. My attitude over the last year has really changed. She is going to do what she chooses and I can't make her change.