Originally Posted by
anvilhead 
my point is, i guess, there is no reason on god's green earth why he CAN'T be a FULL participant in all manners and means. he COULD be looking for work and let them know his start will be Jan whatever. he should be fully engaged every day to the best of his ability. this is the real world pal. man up.
Right? I joke about being comfortable with mediocrity, but it's just a joke. Him, however...
Meh, I keep having to remind myself: it's his journey. I'm on mine. I can't do anything about how he arranges his life, but I don't have to participate in it if I decide I'm truly done. I'm trying to be understanding, but basically he's living there and doing his thing and helping me out when he's home and he's otherwise on my "Ignore List". That's okay for the time being.