I decided I'm going to get my old ugly tattoo on my arm fixed. Right now it's a giant black blob and it's kept me in long sleeves for the last seven years, whether rain, snow, or 100 degree weather. I found an artist I like and it turns out he's confident that he can cover the blob and do it very (VERY) cheaply (seriously, this kid is undercharging). This is something I've wanted to do for myself for a long time and believe it or not it's been an obstacle to participating in some social and professional situations. I'm also picking up my old gold buying hobby, hoping it will give me some stories to tell and some extra cash in the bank.
Whatever I do, I have to get out of the cycle of working, sleeping, caring for baby, and stewing about my AH. I'm ready for some progress and I don't care where he is in his recovery. I need this.