Good for you Itsjustme1968!!
I too came into Al-anon exhausted and drained. I was completely run-down from trying to control EVERYTHING!! My kids, my work, my husband, my dog... everything had to be my way. I needed perfection.
I have had many "phases" as I have worked my recovery program. Definetely moments of being overwhelmed. The awareness of myself and my character defects - phew, when I first started digging - I felt so awful! Forgiveness and patience have been key.
I like what you said - I'm not crazy, just a codie!! So true.
Thanks for sharing!
Shannon