I have been there and supported my ABF thru rehab and it's been 2 years of .... With the other women. I feel your pain. It won't last but likely a relapse. Be good to yourself, don't hang on like I ave done....allowing myself to be abuse with back and forth, since they hooked up it's been a big drunk and no one works.....go figure! It's going slot better and he sober now, doing well....I hope you have a happy ending with or without him.