Originally Posted by
karrie1207 
If it wasn't for my AH I may never of hit my rock bottom. His ciaos caused me to look at myself and bring me to MY rock bottom! That is a great gift!!
My epiphany happened about 4 months ago. And everyday since I am grateful to have hit my bottom in dealing with AXBF's addictions. I have been a codie for a long time (probably my whole life growing up with an alcoholic father). I often wonder how many dysfunctional relationships would I have been involved in if it wasn't for the crisis I am going through with AXBF. Going to alanon and gunna keep on going!!