BobbyJ, sounds like you are being led in some very obvious ways to a destination. What that destination is remains to be seen...recovery counselor? leading your own al-anon group? a new level of tolerance? who knows? But things happen for a reason.
Why not try to embrace it and include it as part of your recovery program? See if it fits better with acceptance, versus frustration that you seem to have a following - like the Pied Piper - only yours are alcoholics and their crazed loved ones!
Then maybe it won't feel so crazy...
just my 5 cents this morning. now back to my regular cup of coffee...