this Thanksgiving will be the first holiday since my divorce and the first one I will be hosting by myself for 17 people, ugh, wish me luck with so many people I won't have the opportunity to be sad. WTBH, did you ask your D's if they wanted to go to FOO or do something else on Thanksgiving? They may surprise you with their answer and no matter how they answer whether or not you go to FOO you'll be with them!