Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy 
It just bugs me to have someone (his mother is married to an absuive alcoholic who AH detests bc of the very behaviors AH himself displays) who is the ultimate codie/enabler, try and judge me for trying to be healthy.
She's sick too. It helps me to remember that when my parents go into toxic mode, which during those times I go completely no contact.
You have a program of recovery. She doesn't.
I agree sometimes it is difficult to take the higher road.
Sending you hugs of support!
