Nice post, TG! I had a similar situation awhile ago as you may remember. He would make little jabs and comments about things I didn't recall saying to him...odd stuff. Then one day it hit me that he was reading my posts. At first I felt worried and embarrassed...I obsessed over my words and how I would explain them, but then I realized that the things I spoke here were truths and I shouldn't feel ashamed of that. HE was the person who did those thing...who caused the anguish and turmoil. Why should I protect HIM from his actions??
I changed my user name from SKW to vujade at that time...the inverse of his username "Dejavu". I also told him that if he had any questions, he was welcome to ask me or to continue reading, it didn't matter to me. I was going to speak the truth either way.
When we allow ourselves to be victims, we are powerless. WTG for being the survivor! You are a great inspiration, TG!