Wow thanks all for your support! Someone here once told me to live up to my username. That stuck, even though at the time it really made me mad! And I have learned in my own recovery process to always speak with truth and don't say things you would be ashamed of later.
Today, I feel sad for him...not pity, he does this stupid stuff to himself, all by himself...just sad for the hot mess he is inside to be so afraid of life that he has to hide from everyone and just peer in illegally once in a while. Why not just do the right thing and stand up to your responsibility to your family? Sheesh... how sad and lonely that must be.
I wish I had time to stalk people. Unfortunately, I work more than full-time, finishing a second graduate degree, and raising two hormonal teenage girls and three dogs all by myself.