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seekinganswrs 
However, how can I get better as a co-dependent with him in the home?? How can I know if he is telling the truth if I am not questioning and checking??? Has this worked for anyone??? How can an addict and a co-dependent person get better together. He says we can do it, but I don't know how. How will I know if he is not taking pills. He is a master at lying and I think it's only because of God that I have been revealed so much recently. It's hard for me to tell if he is on pills or not. Thanks! I really need help
Bottom line is I can't live with someone I can't trust. I will not have an addict in my home ever again, recovering or not.
If by some remote chance my AD seeks recovery, she's got to have two solid years of recovery under her belt before she's even allowed in my front door.
I made the mistake of taking her in after she served a lengthy sentence, and it took one month for her to turn my household upside down and suck my youngest daughter into her active disease.
That was my bottom with AD.