Old 10-15-2011, 05:32 PM
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Be careful not to future-trip and get super upset over things that have not happened. That said, I do it all the time! ; ) And when I catch myself, I try my best to occupy my head with other things.

Everyone so far is right on the money (pun intended) with saying you have no idea how the judge will rule. Yes, he may be able to pursue alimony and everything else. But will he get it? Who knows? And how can he afford an attorney anyway, if you are still supporting him? Hhhmmm...last I checked, retainers are in the thousands.

Remember - take it one day at a time. Focus on what you can change today, and let the rest be until it needs your immediate attention.
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