[QUOTE=Wonderingwife;3136699]I have never posted on this site (or any site before), but need some advice. Over the summer I realized that my husband was drinking much more than I had thought. In addition to the beer and wine at dinner, he was sneaking vodka when I was upstairs or doing various things. I found the empty (6 of them!) bottles in our closet and confronted him. He agreed to stop drinking, cold turkey. I couldn't believe it. Things were amazing. He made it 6 weeks.
I guess you have to ask yourself how normal is it to hide bottles of vodka in your closet. I've come to find that people who don't think they have a problem with anything (including alcohol) usually don't feel they have to hide it.
Have you read up on Alcoholism? Read the stickies on the top of this site and look into Al-Anon where you will get support.