I decided when I woke up this morning that I am not going to answer my husband calls at work anymore........most of the time it upsets me at work and I cant handle it......this is a boundary that I have set..........I feel good about it......I will tell him calmly when i get home that I am sorry i missed your call today at work.......I tried to call you back when I had the chance and that is when i got your voice mail was it important..........I admit.......I am chuckling inside.........due to the fact that he has never called me 10 times at work before because I didnt answer at 9:30........he is just freaking out.........I dont know why I think it is funny..........I am not trying to get back at him for anything......but after yesterdays phone message about the dog.....I have had it......I am not going to tell him that I set this boundary........I am just going to suggest very nicely to please only call my job for an emergency........