Originally Posted by
whenitrains 
Thanks to both of you. I met some very nice people at the meeting tonight, all in the same boat. I am a reader so I will look for that book. You are also completely right Suki, but it's hard to change my own habits of trying to fix my kid's problem. I found out at the Beginner meeting that I went to today, that I am not the only one struggling with the idea that we can't save anyone else.
Welcome whenitrains. I think if you look around in here you will find almost everyone has or had issues with that.
One of the sayings that really helped me is: I didn't cause it, I can't control it and I can't cure it.
That just sums it up right there.
Your friend,