I agree completely, programatic. It's sad, because I really do at the heart of it all hope he finally finds something that makes him happy, but the reality of it is that he never will, and he will relapse.He told me once that I was a "nice" girl with a good job, my own home, and a healthy lifestyle, and he felt the need to damage that because he was damaged. His family is wealthy and they throw money at the problem, which IS the problem obviously, and he thinks himself SO superior to the other people in his program who are doing things like waiting tables and actually working. The worst part is that I felt bad for SO long about how he treated me, like if I had done something different it wouldn't have happened. And now I know that's not the case at all. Lots of time and emotion wasted.