Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy 
at me and I have no doubt that will continue into custody issues as well.
I think I'm going to tell him I'll move out with the girls and go to my mom's which is the only other option. She's severely mentally ill and I am more scared to leave the girls with her than with AH but that's it for options. When he knows he can be in the house I imagine his victimhood bs will end. And I guess I need to apply for a new credit card and pay the retainer on that... This is a nightmare.
Bad idea. Surely he knows your mom is nutso...and will use that in court to say your not providing a safe environment for your kids...and he will get shared if not full custody.
Move to a cheap apt. Everything will be in your name. Make a clean start. You'll also be showing that to the court that your being self sufficient and stable.