To Taking Charge -
I mean, I'm not going to lie. I only 'allowed' for him to ask me out. He was attractive, but I also knew from conversations that he was badly in debt and not really doing anything about it - a bad sign I learned from my husband.
By the way, this happened more than a week ago... just sometimes, I get an idea into my head and just get consumed by it: "I'm not going to have any luck dating, look at what happened with this jagoff," "I don't have a career together and look at how old I am," "If I want to have kids, I better get crackin', I'm already in my mid-30s," "I screwed up my life (WAH-WAH-WAH)."
Stuff like this will go on until I get on here and share with people.