Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy I feel like I am doing the best I can with the tools I have (checking in here, talking to T, sponsor and al anon group) to question my skewed thinking that pops up frequently....
I wish my girls had a mother who hadn't grown up as I did and hadn't married the husband I did who reinforced all the mistaken beliefs I had about how wrong my intuition always is.
Whoa Nellie! Let's replace paragraph #2 with paragraph #1 in your thinking. Please don't berate yourself like you did in the second paragraph.
You are a good mom, and don't forget it!