Its not how they treat others
but how we treat ourselves
I saw XABF today.. the SAME guy someone totally different than the guy I remember (the pretend guy!)
So is it really worth the energy to wonder about them..? even if I knew about something wonderful "they" did together I would think "and later when they were alone and he was drunk as hell, what happened?" because yes to the outside we were perfect and in love and when doors closed it was a hellish nightmare it has taken years to heal. Hostage situation, very different from what I would consider joy and love and romance which is freedom and trust and respect and nice details and laughter.
Leave the magic for Cris Angel and let's continue living here on Earth (and seeing what we can enjoy in our day) shall we
