WTBH isn't it wonderful to let go of judgments and expectations ...
Today I had lunch at work and XABF was next to me..
I felt some anger but I thought "this too shall pass... in.. 20 minutes" and it did pass. And I was in this restaurant at a terrace, the trees were still green, the sky still blue, the sun kept shining for everyone, for me too. Yes, today is a new day. Right now is a fresh chance too. And I also realized I was the normal one, if XABF was not able to see me and value me, too bad... I am still me, with all my qualities, hopes, lessons learned... others can keep walking on their own journeys, we got ours....
Cheers and I am glad you were given clarity about your reality and your power - Hugs.