I can't control what my AH does. After learning from Al-Anon, I stopped looking for wine bottles or telling him what to do in regard to his alcohol.
I have a friend who has been sober for over ten years now. He occasionally did non-alcoholic beer. I have another friend who said she didn't want any non-alcoholic beverages around her and she has been sober for over a decade. I think it's an individual choice. Individuals have to figure out their triggers and what to do about them.