I neglected to add that I thought of the "gee, you know where the doctor's office is... " but I did not suggest this to him. In the past I would have but this time I realized that if he couldn't figure that out on his own (of course he COULD, it was more important for him to bitch me out than to actually see D6) there was no reason I should suggest it.
And thanks blwninthewind for noticing (which I didn't) that his concern is for HIM seeing the girls-- not THEM. I am sure it won't take long for him to realize he better phrase it as "it's hurtful for the girls to be kept from me" but for now it's completely obvious it is all about him isn't it...
Thanks everyone. Like I said I wasn't looking for "oh you're soooo right" -- I really needed a reality check and would have been equally grateful even if you'd said that yes, I was being unreasonable. It's amazing how lost I can become when listening to him.