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Old 09-23-2011, 10:08 AM
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I agree about the gratitude list. When things get really horrible, when I feel down, I look around me and what I have and realize just how much that is-beyond the material things-I have a loving family, good friends and neighbours, a pup, friends here at SR and Al-Anon.

Most of all-I have more respect for myself, more love for myself now, than at any time in my relationship with him-I can look at myself in the mirror, know how painful my decision was, but know that the decision was the right one....for me.

What he has (or does not have) is his choice and yeah, if he does not want to be a part of mine, so be it.

I'm off to walk the pup and enjoy a glorious fall day here in paradise.
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