I've already met with an attorney so I know what is fair and just. The question is negotiating down from there, and the fact that I really, really don't want to talk to the RAH again. EVER. I hope I don't ever see him again and will go to great lengths to make sure I don't. I am just that disgusted.
After a good nights sleep - I am far more realistic today to what I can do. Dissolution in my state, if mutually agreed upon, is only $150. But he's going to have to meet me halfway and that is something he doesn't do well. That's my frustration - being forced to finally negotiate in a divorce when it was never doable in marriage.
I am not scared to try - just burned out by trying anything anymore. Crispy is a better word! Like a burned t-giving turkey.