Originally Posted by SoaringSpirits

Hugs to you, breakingglass, from another who is dealing with the physical effects of stress and anxiety (hives, skin rashes, weight loss, lack of appetite). Take it one day at a time, make your plans, and put them into action. I dreaded for months knowing I was coming to an impasse with my AH, and found it was somewhat of a relief when I finally took action and separated from him. It has been very hard, but not nearly as hard as continuing to live that lonely life under the same roof.