well tonight will be a bad night because he called me at work and he's drunk and upset that his mother is angry with him and asked him to leave her house. don't blame her at all. but that means i will likely be walking into another nightmare when i get home.....but my plan is to calmly do my laundry and the chores i planned to do this evening. if he starts in on me i will just leave and go spend the night with a friend. its so unfair that i have to leave my home and be the one spewed all over the place..... i will go shopping and buy some new shoes....that always helps!
and thanks for the hugs!